The Shallow List

One time, I made a list of the qualifications I wanted in a husband. Cute. Tall. Funny. Smart. Christian. But I think most girls want that. What was to set the guy I wanted apart from every other guy who was cute, funny, tall, smart and a Christian? I had to really...

Sometimes Submitting Sucks

After nine years of marriage, I think I’m experiencing an actual season of submission to my husband. We disagree on a couple of big issues right now. I don’t have peace, and neither does he. We are both praying for the same thing, and unfortunately, the...
Don’t Text, Friend, Follow, Snapchat or Call First!

Don’t Text, Friend, Follow, Snapchat or Call First!

One of my bestest girlfriends called me up the other day with a question for her teenaged nephew. “If he likes a girl, shouldn’t the guy be the one to friend her on Facebook, or should he wait for her to do it?” My answer: “Stop being lazy...

How to be a Good Girlfriend: Don’t Nag

  Don’t nag your boyfriend. You are not his momma. You are not his teacher. You are not his mentor. If you hear yourself saying “If I don’t do it, then it won’t get done.” or “If I don’t do it, he won’t.” then...
Don’t Text, Friend, Follow, Snapchat or Call First!

Tapping into our feminine side…

Be a Good Girlfriend, Pt 1

Be a Good Girlfriend, Pt 1

If you want to be a good girlfriend, don’t be like this: